Self-care, Self-confidence, Self-love, Self-esteem and Self-respect

Different expressions, yet they mean the same thing.  At the core, there is a question to ponder around whether we truly show love and care towards ourselves. Our mind may say we do, yet our actions may reveal that we are self-delusional and self-deceiving, even self-sabotaging.  Our patterns arising tend to show what dominates our…

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On retreat in Hawaii

It was 2017 and I was in Hawai’i on retreat, hiking through a national park in Kau’ai.  There was trail in some parts but well-worn tracks along ridge lines and razor mountain edges that would plunge into the valley.  Being an Australian on tour, I was mesmerised by the intensity of pure, pristine nature as…

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Honouring and Owning Oneself

It took me a long time to truly value myself and feel worthy.  I don’t know why that is but I guess my mind would tell me a thousand reasons why I wasn’t or couldn’t be and often would chatter in the background about it beneath the threshold of my awareness.  Life happened and keeps…

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Experiment in Love

Choosing to share life and be love, for a day—see what happens to you and those around you. Intentions are powerful and can reframe what happens in way that is harnessed as fuel to further propel us closer to the things we love or, in truth, draw them into our sphere of influence so they…

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Accessing the Frequencies Around You

Everything has a tone, frequency and energy.  We are literally surrounded if not immersed in a cacophony of frequencies from the natural to the built environment.  People have a resonance, or frequency, and you feel it when with them by how you feel; nature has a frequency as do foods and products like tables and…

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A Parent’s Love

I cannot know this, for this is not something I have come to know this life.  Yet, in seeing many parents selflessly and endlessly love, I see the power of that love and the moments when it is both tough and tender.  I also see the futility of seeking to control the life of another…

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Kindness is Underrated

In some big cities, the level of stress is often palpable as is the sharpness of mind that emanates from a careful, cautious, closed, congested or clogged heart. Not always, mind you.  In our quest to get something or be somewhere, we can look past and ignore what is right in front of us, seeking…

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My muse, my inspiration, my way

Hide as it may, scurry as it does, love has been my purpose and reason for being.  It has guided or directed my actions even within actions that seemed loveless.  I remember being touched by the song “Shallow” by Lady Gaga, the melody was haunting as well as healing and for me, the notion of…

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Love has not been easy on my path

As loving as I have been, or as romantic and sensual, the gift of love has not always been apparent in my life through the presence of a stable, loving partner.  Sure, I’ve had loving friends and pets, colleagues and encounters, but to have love show up in ways through the medium of true love…

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Beauty of Presence

I’ve walked the bay in Sydney so many times, over so many years.  There is something special for me in the energy of the outdoors, the circular track, the water, the atmosphere that makes the walk, or jog, one where you can decompress, unwind and connect.  It is inexplicable. Day or night, sunshine or rain,…

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